ATTENTION ALL YOUNG GIRLS:
*~ The MYGirls Blog Series will run every Friday, at 6:00pm Pacific Standard Time. ~*
Hello lovely young girls!
How are you all doing??? School is back in session, how are you classes going? Are you well-adjusted to the teaching styles of your instructors? Are you grasping the work in class, and understanding your homework? Hopefully the answers to all these questions, is a confident “Yes!” However, do not be discouraged if you have to answer “No.” It is okay to need, and seek, help for yourselves. We all are imperfect creatures, and a helping hand is typically a non-judgmental hand.
Last Friday’s blog piece was on Part 1 of a 2-Part entry: Appearance & Personal Hygiene, with Part 1 being Personal Hygiene. Last week’s topic focused on the importance of minding how often you allow your friends to use your health & beauty products (soaps, lotions, body sprays, lip balms & glosses, etc.), lest you make yourselves susceptible to the passing of germs, which can lead to allergic reactions, infections, and other possible ailments and illnesses. As Part 1 pertained to how you take care of yourselves, Part 2, Appearance, will focus on how you present yourselves.
Presentation is SO important when it comes to showing yourselves to the world. There’s an old saying that goes, “you never get a second chance to make a first impression.” While it is true that wo/man makes the clothes and not the other way around, the way that one dresses sets the tone for others to formulate their opinions about him or her, whether accurate about the person or otherwise.
When you are making yourselves visible to the world, you are showing the world who and what you are, based on the first impression they get from you. No, you should not judge a book by its cover, however there is a reason why an author puts much time & thought into how he or she would like to illustrate the book title and cover. Something has to attract the reader, and the visual must be persuasive enough to prompt the reader to check out the book’s overview . . . and possibly make the purchase from the bookstore or check-out from the library. It’s all in the presentation!
Young girls, how do you see yourselves when you look in the mirror? While we are defining ourselves based on likes, dislikes, strengths, weaknesses, and how we relate to the rest of the world, we must also keep in mind that we are defining ourselves AND being defined. Not initially by others, but rather by what we do when we present ourselves. While no one else can define you, what you do to define yourself, can actually work against you.
If you have been keeping up with the blog entries from our GU4AP / MYG bloggers (outside of the MYGirls blog series), you will notice our fabulous blogger Ashley ( @sincerelyashleyxo ) gave insight on great ways to present yourselves in her blog entry, “Age Appropriate Back to School Fashion Outfits for Young Girls . . . ” I would like to expand a bit further on the importance of presentation, regarding possible messages others could be interpreting when viewing your first impression.
- Wearing age-appropriate attire is extremely important, especially in young girls whose bodies have developed into shapes usually seen on adult females. A young girl must first understand her body and its development, puberty, her sexuality, the vast differences between an adolescent and an adult, and the possible message she could give off if wearing makeup, tight or revealing clothing, high heels, hairstyles typically seen on adult females, long acrylic or press-on nails, and anything that screams “grown-up.” Makeup is not for young girls. High heels are not for young girls. Tight or revealing clothing is not for young girls. Multiple ear or body piercings are not for young girls. Certain hairstyles are not for young girls. We stress confidence, self-love, and we also stress self-respect.
- As much as we must pay attention to how we are fixing ourselves up, we must also pay attention to the times we make NO effort to give good presentation. While the exterior does not speak for the interior, the exterior could possibly distract the viewer, turning him or her away from the main goal of getting to the interior. Hairstyles nowadays straddle the fence between ‘neat’ and ‘unkempt’, so there is really no defining base. However, that does not mean to present yourself looking as though you rolled out of bed five minutes prior. We must dress for what we want, and look the part. Why? Well, because you wouldn’t want to sit at the station of a manicurist who has dirty nails. You wouldn’t want to sit in the chair of a hairstylist whose hair is all over the place . . . not in any particular style or pattern. You wouldn’t want to buy food from a chef who came to work looking like he or she ran through a dust storm. What clients would trust them and their service(s)? None of those people would be dressed to look their parts. It’s only fair that they don’t expect business to be good.
Young girls, remember as I said, you always want to “look the part.” You always want to dress for what you want. Your initial appearance is what gets others to believe in your words, your business, your product(s), your insight, your views. And this means way more than the labels and price tags attached to the clothing you wear.
If you want success, you must dress like you’re going to find it.
Please understand, young girls, that paying attention to your appearance and presentation, is not to make you stuck-up, snobby, self-conscious, or to make you superficial. Paying attention to the way you look, is exhibiting self-love, self-worth, self-respect, and self-esteem. When you look good, you feel good, and when you feel good, you tend to want to DO good. And when done with the proper guidance, you’ll always BE good.
Remember young girls, , and show the world how to love you too!!